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Recently, after having reflect on my previous life's mistakes, I noticed that I used to make the same biggest mistake again and again ! 

That huge mistake had cost me my peace of mind, my joy of living, my succes and my self-confidence. 

I was convinced that I needed a man to be fulfilled and happy in my life. I was measuring my worth by the fact that a man wanted me in his life or not and I was judging the level of succes of a woman based on if she got married or not. 

I use to have that kind of thought " OMG !She's so successful, she's beautiful and have an amazing personnality, but still, that's so sad she doesn't have anybody in her life". I was seing the life of any woman like none completely accomplished if she was still single.  

That way I was uncapable to appreciate my own life ! 

And I was walking everyday like I was a good girl who unfortunatly happens to be single. 

I was so needy to have somebody in my life that people could feel it from far away ! 

As soon as a guy was showing me some kind of interest, I was diving into his life, making of him my only priority and trying to be the best cheerleader ever, and giving him all the love and support I wasn't able to give to myself. And all that with the meager hope that he'll give at least a little in return.

I had multiple " dates" but couldn't have any real " relationship". I was so quick to want to be in a relationship and making of a man the center of my life that I was scaring them away without even knowing. 

I was always wondering how could single women by sincerely happy and fulfilled and also what was I doing wrong ? 

I started to try to find what was the secret of women that were married, I wanted to know how the went about getting that relation status. 

I was preparing myself for the idea that I would maybe never be in a love relationship and was hopin to find a way to be happy anyways. 

I had the chance to meet several married women, some of them were very happy about their love life but some others weren't and were always complaining about their husband. 

At that moment I knew that I would rather be single and HAPPY than to be with someone and frustrated. 

After observing those happy single or married women, I saw they all had something than the other women didn't have. They had their own life and was putting themselves as their priority in any of their choices ! And the craziest thing is that they both weren't treating men as they needed them. Men weren't a need, they were an OPTION. 

And as long as they were a pleasant option, theses women were happy to have them. 

DON'T NEED NO MAN is a blog for women wanting to live an happy life single or in a relationship. 

It's about self-developpement, self-love, and healthy relationship with ourselves and others. 

Welcome 

Michelle Pawa